ATTRACTING THE MAN YOU WANT & BE LOVED BY IN LAWS

I watched Lebo Mashigo’s show on SABC 1 years ago when a man was thanking his wife for using korobela (love portion) on him. The man confessed that had it not been for it, he wouldn’t have settled down to ‘love’ his wife. A man told me that he “locked” his wife using muti meaning she would love him only. I have seen sisters serving at the church getting old and end up unmarried. I have watched deliverance services on TV and I believe that sometimes evil spirits can interfere and influence carnal people to overlook or even hate you. So, what do you do when nobody is attracted to you and there are spiritual gurus handing out pamphlets written promising “Get loved by in-laws, wife, husband and friends; get Strong attractive charm to get the man of your choice”

Had I not found the following scriptures, I would have thought that making someone love you is witchcraft:

Genesis 39 :21(AMP) “But the Lord was with Joseph, and showed him mercy and loving-kindness and gave him favour in the sight of the warden of the prison”

1Samuel 18:1(AMP) When David had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own life.”

Daniel 1:9(AMP) “Now God made Daniel to find favour, compassion, and loving-kindness with the chief of the eunuchs.”

So, God can actually cause even your enemies to like or favour you. However I don’t think we can manipulate God to control people who don’t love us or that we have a crush on to love us. I get from the above scriptures that if you are in God, if that is connected to your destiny & God’s glory, He can cause the people to love you or even hate you…. Yes! To hate you… you love speaking about the doors that God opens, what about the ones that He closes? I just don’t wanna go into details now but if you are in a confortable zone or sinning mode, God can stir people & things around to hate, oppress or persecute you to get you back into track just like the Israelites a million times in Judges & the whole Old Testament.

Proverbs 31:30 NLT Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised.

Sisters like complaining that men in church don’t chase after them like boys in the world. Of course! What do you expect? Tsotsis and them know nothing else but physical attraction just like they can produce nothing else than temporary physical pleasure. So perhaps instead of trying to attract people to love you by your charm or physical attraction, you should work on your spiritual-self to be loving instead.

1 Peter 3:3-4 NLT Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. 4 You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.

I know two very beautify and sexy church women who have been serving in church forever; their clocks are clicking late but they still are so bitter, unloving and rude; how do such people get men whom God loves? They better visit sangomas for some quick fixes temporary fixes ( I will later give you muti stories which we know don’t last and in fact can make people hate you. Hhhm how ironic?) . Here in the Lord, we build things on the rock that last forever so it takes self-discipline and long suffering to build character. With character, you get fulfilled in God & don’t get desperate to be loved although you need people to affirm you, God enables you to love instead; that is why we are commanded to love (not seek love).

In fact, in Christianity we don’t work or expect to be loves or accepted by people. Some close people who are not of Christ would hate us as Jesus has promised :
John 15:18-19 NLT "If the world hates you, remember that it hated Me first. 19 The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.

Matthew 24:9 NLT "Then you will be arrested, persecuted, and killed. You will be hated all over the world because you are My followers.

John 17:14 NLT I have given them Your word. And the world hates them because they do not belong to the world, just as I do not belong to the world.

Matthew 10:34-36 NLT "Don't imagine that I came to bring peace to the earth! I came not to bring peace, but a sword. 35 'I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. 36 Your enemies will be right in your own household!'

1 John 3:13 NLT So don't be surprised, dear brothers and sisters, if the world hates you.

God’s love is enough and you must be complete and satisfied within yourself in God’s love if you wanna be a Christian; and we must love one another. I cut a lot of stuff just to be short, I hope you get the point though.